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“I Never Did Mind The Little Things…”

January 27, 2015 by Laura Kubicki 2 Comments

 

Bluebird.  Photo by Dehaan
Bluebird. Photo by Dehaan

…So it’s Monday. The alarm goes off at 5:30. Not my favorite thing as I much prefer getting up around 7:30. You? Well…one morning down, four to go…

I never did mind the little things.

Time to make three breakfasts, three lunches (umm…the smell of turkey at the crack of dawn), and clean up. Gulp down a cup of cold coffee, check weather, get myself ready, check email, get the kids ready, get everyone out into the Minivan (on time) with all they need for school. Oh and add to that my oldest’s procrastination issues – “I don’t CARE if we only have five more minutes!” and my youngest pinpoint focus on making his bed just perfectly (yes! he’s like that), never mind he’s still in his underwear and needs to brush his teeth...we don’t hold school on your ‘bottom’ bunk kiddo!!

And then there’s that fifteen minute drive in traffic to the car line (and back), practicing our Math Facts (some) until we arrive at the school ‘house’…

I never did mind the little things.

Then it’s to laundry leftovers and another load for today – because a day without laundry is like a day without sunshine – not! The fish tank needs cleaning again as we have EIGHT (yes 8! WAA-haaay too many) huge goldfish in a ten gallon tank. The cat and dog need a trip to the vet. Time for a termite inspection. Gotta get to Costo cause we’re out of milk, cereal, bread, chicken and gas for the week. Did I mention I’d love a shower?

I never did mind the little things.

Some lady cut me off at the intersection and some guy took my WAY. CLOSE. PARKING SPOT. Well go ahead. Maybe you need it today more than I…

Sheets need washing, beds need making, dinner menu needs planning (oh no! Grocery Shopping!), blog needs blogging – and there’s the ebook I’m desperately trying to get together – but husband needs listening, teachers need meeting, library’s calling…books overdue. Again.

I never did mind the little things.

I’m late. The dog needs a walk. There is a piano lesson this afternoon. A dentist appointment and oh yea – the dry-cleaning!! I scalded my hand – OUCH! I missed the mailman. Joseph is into another tantrum. Homework needs doing. “Mom when can Ethan come over???!” Late fees. Oil changes. Family drama. It’s raining.

I never did mind the little things. This is my Mantra.

My go to phrase that I use each day when things overwhelm me. Whatever ‘things’ they are – it doesn’t matter. They overwhelm. They depress. They demoralize. They work to squash me into a cranky, cynical, frowning, anxiety laden, wrinkled, monster of a mom, wife, friend…and I’m determined they WILL NOT WIN.

I’ve got my mantra and it helps me keep them at bay.

That and a lot of prayer friends – a lot!

I got the phrase years ago from a movie with Bridget Fonda called Point of No Return. Have you seen it? It’s an old one. Back when I used to go to movies…sigh.

Anyway…Bridget’s character is desperately trying to maintain composure and not get killed by another assassin so she repeats a little phrase she learned “I never did mind the little things” as a pretty gruesome act takes place right before her, which buys her time and helps save her life.

Now, I’ve never been remotely close to anything like that (and I sure hope you haven’t either!), so I figure if it’s good enough for Bridget, it’s good enough for me.

And you know what? It works! I even taught it to my kids to say to themselves if they’re fighting, or someone at school is mean, or a game or toy is lost, or it’s just turning into a rough, time out sort of day.

I never did mind the little things.

Because we’re all blessed with so many other things, that come from even just living on this beautiful planet, that really deserve our focus. You know your list. And when I focus on the negative, annoying stuff, I MISS ALL THE GREAT, BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING, WONDERFUL stuff that surrounds us each and every day.

…like the bluebird that flew past my car window this morning who looked magnificently self-illuminated in spite of the dreary, gray, cold morning sky. Really. He was just beautiful!

I’ve found I get what I look for in this life. If I focus on the good that’s mostly what I find. But when I let the ‘turkeys’ get me down (so to speak), I miss stuff I wish I hadn’t and who wants that??? Not me. Laura’s Choice? Live Happy! And I mean it.

What sorts of things do you do to keep that beautiful chin of yours up? Please share!

And thanks for stopping by! Luv ya! I really do.

 

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Creamy Vanilla Milk

January 13, 2015 by Laura Kubicki 2 Comments

Creamy Vanilla Milk
Creamy Vanilla Milk

 

Imagine…it’s been a long day.

You know the routine…

It’s the middle of January.  Post Christmas blahs.  And it’s gray…gray…gray.

And it’s cold.

Very cold.

Maybe you have tons of snow?  Maybe you have a frosty wet mix of cold rain and sleet pelting down outside.  Maybe it’s just 2 degrees without the 30mph wind gusts you’ve been running around in all day.  Maybe you live in the South where you feel like it’s 2 degrees, when in actuality it’s dropped to 32, but you JUST CAN’T HANDLE THE COLD ANY LONGER!!!

Doesn’t matter your actual meteorologic situation…

The fact is you’ve been chilled all day and just can’t get warm.  Like your bones got cold way…deep…down.  Your feet hurt, you have a minor headache, you’re looking at a mountain of laundry, a stack of bills that need paying (remember Christmas?), the phone keeps ringing, emails and texts keep dinging, dinner dishes need washing, and….Mom!!!! Can I have a bedtime snack???

Hang on!  Help is on the way!  Why don’t you slip into those ‘oh so comfy’ sweats and pad back to the kitchen in your fuzzy slippers and get something warm and soothing for your body and soul.

Hot. Creamy. Vanilla. Milk. (JOY!)

You like it ’cause warming up the milk activates that stuff in it that ‘they say’ helps you fall asleep.  You also like the slightly sweet, creamy vanilla taste and soothing scent that wafts up with the steam, warming your ice cold nose as you sip.

AND…it’s got calcium, protein, and has less calories than your regular run of the mill hot chocolate (although who’s ever had a problem with that stuff?).

Oh and you pause to note how much your kids would LOVE this ‘Special Milk’ and smile when you think to yourself  ‘Hey, I bet I’ll be able to get them to drink more milk this way,’ and ‘Ah Ha! What a great bedtime snack’!

Absolutely.

I got this idea when I was about 12, from a friend of a friend’s mother who served it to us at a sleepover (smaarrrrrt lady!).

Ready friends?  It’s as easy as this!

Creamy Vanilla Milk

1 tps   real vanilla extract

8oz    skim milk (for fewest calories but feel free to sub any milk you prefer)

1 tps honey (or sugar)

Directions:

Combine vanilla, milk, and honey or sugar.  Heat in the microwave 2-3 minutes or until piping hot, but not boiling over.

Sit on your most comfy piece of furniture or prop yourself up in front of a roaring fire and go to that oh so lovely, warm, peaceful, quiet, place where you can escape a bit of the days madness, recharge your battery, and get ready for a great night’s sleep.

zzzzzzzzzZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ.

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Merry Christmas! God Bless Us. Everyone!

December 24, 2014 by Laura Kubicki Leave a Comment

Nativity Scene
Our Christmas Nativity Scene

 

It’s Christmas Eve.  And what an Advent season it’s been!  The hustle and bustle seems to me to get more hustle-ie and bustle-ie each and every year!

This Advent, we’ve been on a magical journey to the North Pole on the Polar Express (it happened to visit Bryson City, NC this year – what luck!), were the family lighter of Advent Candles on the Advent Wreath at our Home Moravian Church, in Old Salem, celebrated Joseph’s 7th, our nephew/cousin’s Jakob’s 1st, and my dad’s XX birthdays, attended the Nutcracker, the Davie Dermatology Christmas Party, and went out to dinner with family friends, all sprinkled around a couple last minute third grade school projects and shopping!  Phew!

 

Now, all the presents are wrapped and some are under the tree (Santa will be bringing the rest come morning I’m sure).  The breakfast casserole, coffee, Christmas Kringle, and Cranberry Bread are ‘holding’ in the fridge for tomorrow morning’s festivities and we’re getting ready to head out for our traditional Moravian Christmas LoveFeast service in Old Salem at Home Church.

Comet the Cog

Whatever you find doing on this 2014 Christmas Eve, know you are wished the merriest, brightest, most blessed Christmastide, for the 12 days of Christmas are just about to begin!

We wish you a Merry Christmas and much love always,

Laura (and the fam)!

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Fresh, Homemade, Ginger Tea

December 22, 2014 by Laura Kubicki Leave a Comment

It’s the dreaded cold and flu season.  Ug…Now I must warn you…

WARNING.  Brace yourself.  If you have a weak stomach you may want to go straight to the recipe!  If you’re up for what’s next, here it comes.  Consider yourself warned :o)….

Cold and Flu season hit us hard last year.  We were immediately saddled with colds, which led to month long, ‘I think I’m dying’, sinus infections, followed by a family bout of the flu at Christmas – EVEN WITH FLU VACCINE on board!

And when I say it hit us hard, I mean HARD!

…like my oldest vomiting over the side of his upper bunkbed – at 2am –  spewing something resembling some nasty substance from Aliens, and somehow managing to get it under the mattress, on the slats, all over my at the time 5 year old, both beds, comforters, pillows, stuffed animals, and ending with a perimeter of you don’t want to know what, smeared around the beds soaking into the carpet.

Whimper.  It was awful for everyone…and it smelled atrocious!  It took Jason and I over two hours just to clean it all up, which we worked on while simultaneously giving Joseph a bath, running emergency laundry loads, and holding Jack as he continued to get sick every 15 minutes of so.  Horrible, horrible, night!!!!

Hey. I warned you :o)!

Ugh!  So anyway, as I was recalling those events of last year’s cold & flu season, I remembered the one home remedy that I use frequently this time of year for nasty colds and nauseous tummy troubles (post vomiting stage of course!).  And seeing as how we’re in the midst of a pre-Christmas cold experience…this soothing remedy is quite top-of-mind, so to speak.

In fact, I’ll go as far as to say that this fresh, homemade, Ginger Tea recipe is one good thing that comes with the ‘sick’ season – and perhaps has the power to make you and yours just a little bit happier when your stuck home snuggling with an ever emptying box of tissues…or worse.

First let me say, I know of absolutely no other home remedy that helps me feel better and reduces my horrible sinus congestion, cough, sore throat, and various stomach maladies than this one!  My mom and I are VERY prone to horrible, sinus infections and have spent a lot of stuffy, sick days trying various ginger/lemon teas to help soothe our symptoms off the shelf and they don’t hold a candle to this simple brew.

The soothing tingles from the ginger spice and citrus elements, combined with the silky honey extinguish a hot, scratchy, post nasal drip, swollen throat and work to help open those clogged nasal passages that keep dripping…dripping…dripping.  And as you swallow this amazing concoction (am I overselling here??), it cuts through all that mucus gunk (TRUE!) that burns and itches unceasingly – better than even a fizzy soft drink – and it’s all natural!

It’s not a cure, but I swear, combined with what ever OTC or Rx products you are using (I’m not aware of any med contraindications here, but seeing as I’m not a doctor you should check with your MD if you’re concerned) and a steam bath, this potion really comforts when you’re miserable.  Jason drinks it by the gallon when he’s sick, and my kids go to it when they’re all stuffy too!  My Mom even takes batches to sick friends or family.  Great stuff!

Wish I could take credit for this, but I’ve got to give a nod to my mother on this one.  She found this idea watching a relatively famous MD daytime TV show (HINT.  The Wizard Of _____).  So friends…while this isn’t my own invention, this stuff is just so soothing and calming to me when I’m sick, I have to share it with you (in case you missed it on TV)!

There are only 4 ingredients and it’s super fast and simple to brew.  Plus, depending on your palate and spice sensitivity, you can feel free to adjust quantities to exactly what suits you!

Hope it helps you as much as it does us!  Here’s to your health my friends!!  AH-CHOO!

Fresh Homemade Ginger Tea 

Ingredients:

1  2-3 inch piece of fresh ginger

2 TBS Juice from 1 lemon or to taste –  I use store bought in a pinch, but it’s not as potent

Honey to taste

3-4 C  Boiling water

Directions:

Put on about 3-4 C of water to boil.

Gently peel the ginger.  This is the longest step.  Ginger has a really thin skin so be careful to just scrape off or lightly peel it so you get the most ginger for your money!  I’ve seen other people scrape off the skin with a spoon, but I use a peeler or pairing knife myself.

Peeled Ginger

Mince ginger.  I use a Mini Food Processor for this – I affectionately call it ‘mini chop-chop’ as I use it all the time for fast, quick prep. (if you don’t have one you might want to invest!  It’s a great kitchen tool).

Mince away – it should look like this.

Add to 3-4C  boiling water cover with a kitchen towel, and steep.  I do 5-10 minutes.  But if it’s an emergency a couple minutes is ok too.

Strain the steeped ginger out of tea.  Add the juice of a fresh squeezed lemon or to taste and about 1/4 C of honey, or you can wait on the honey and add to taste cup by cup.  I like a teaspoon or two per cup in mine.

Strain Solids
Keep Straining
Squeeze Lemon
Adding Lemon Juice
Add Honey

Pour a cup, reheat in microwave if needed and store the rest in the fridge for up to two days.  That’s it!  My favorite beverage choice for this year’s cold and flu season!   Sure hope it helps you and yours feel better (and happier)…sniff…sniff….SOON!!

Ahh. Ginger Tea.

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Christmas Snowflake Cupcakes

December 8, 2014 by Laura Kubicki Leave a Comment

Let It Snow! It’s a Cinch!

Need a quick school Christmas treat idea?  Try Christmas Snowflake Cupcakes!  They take very little time and are oh…so….cute!

Here’s all you need…

  1. 1 box of chocolate cake mix – your choice :o); or if you have a favorite cake recipe have at it, but it’ll take a little longer.
  2. White frosting – I used one can of Pillsbury Classic White Frosting cause it was inexpensive and quick, quick, quick!
  3. Red and Clear sugar sprinkles to make them sparkle

Follow box directions and bake cupcakes – takes about 20-25 min (I did it the night before while making dinner so the cupcakes were ready to decorate this morning).  Let them cool completely (duh!).

Then grab a Wilton or other cake decorating bag and for the snowflakes, I used tip number 21 (looks like a large starburst).  After securing tip, fill up the bag with frosting. Then just squeeze one ‘snowflake’ at a time around the outside perimeter of your cupcake, filling inwards until done.  The whole top looks like a snowflake when you’re done!

TIP:  You can practice ‘snowflakes’ on a paper towel or piece of wax paper to be sure you fill the decorating tip and get the feel first…

Finally, just sprinkle with your colored sugar and voila!  Your little elves will love you for it!  Plus, these are WAY better than store bought, and probably even takes about the same amount of time as a ‘quick trip’ to said store (seriously have you seen the holiday traffic scene???) – I promise ya!

Happy baking!

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